If you know a teen or preteen, it is almost certain they have heard about or have watched the Netflix series “13 Reasons Why.” This may be concerning due to the very graphic and dramatic content of the series, which portrays one girl’s decision to commit suicide.
The content of this series is clearly triggering. If someone is already struggling with depression or has undergone a traumatic event themselves, this series would likely enflame these feelings and memories. Preteens are especially vulnerable to the harmful messages since they are not yet emotionally equipped to fully process the irrational logic portrayed in this series.
A major shortcoming of the series is that it does not offer support contacts after each episode or reflect how adults are available to intervene. How can we talk with our youth regarding the perspective of this recent “Netflix binge” barrage?
First, we need to understand that suicide and related behaviors are symptoms of a mental illness. Early warning signs of mental illness were minimized throughout “13 Reasons.” Hannah did not portray the common affect and demeanor of someone suffering with depression until the very end of the series.
Commonly, suicide is considered an impulsive act when completed by teens. However, there are also signs and symptoms that can be present for weeks, months or years. Warning signs of depression can include:
For a teen who is struggling, there is often a series of atypical behavior and changes in the teen’s “normal” presentation. Be on the lookout for changes in behavior and be prepared to speak directly with your teen about it.
Get to know the warning signs of suicide.
A common experience and emotion of teenagers is that life is stressful and difficult and that it is never going to get better. Unfortunately, teenagers often fail to reach out to others and share what is going on.
When a teen is going through a difficult situation, connection and communication is a crucial intervention. You want your teen to understand they aren’t as alone and misunderstood as they may think, and that life will get better.
Try these talking points:
The Jed Foundation (JED) and Suicide Awareness Voices of Education (SAVE) also developed a list of 13 talking points for young adults and parents to discuss while watching the series.
While this series has raised the controversial topic of suicide among teens, our communities need to band together to provide resources and outlets for teens so they know help is available.
As a parent, trust your gut. If you are concerned, don’t wait. Seek help.
National Suicide Prevention Hotline: 800-273-TALK (8255)
NAMI – DuPage: 630-752-0066
Linden Oaks Behavioral Health Hospital, 24-hour Help Line: 630-305-5027
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